Sunday, 10 April 2011
♥♡How to make anyone fall in love with you♥♡
This article is so interesting...I had to share it with you guys! Lol Do u believe you can make someone fall for you?? Hahahah Well...how about you try it? This article will give u ways in making the person like you! I'm sure there is that one girl or guy u'd love to date ;-) Don't forget to let me know how the challenge went!
1. Hang around lots...but then be unavailable
The more you interact with someone, the more they'll like you.So forget about being unavailable in the beginning. Instead, find lots of excuses to spend time with him/her.
Just when you're convinced you've won them over and they like you,start being a little less available. And then even less, until they hardly see you at all.
You've now effectively implemented the 'law of scarcity'. The law of scarcity only makes them want you. Be around and then not around and they'll want and like you.
2. Don't do nice things for them. Let them do nice things for you
If you do something nice for someone, it makes you feel good on two levels. You feel pleased with yourself and warm toward the person you've just spoiled. To justify the effort or expense, we often over-idealise how wonderful he is to deserve it! End result: we like the person more. When someone does something nice for us, we're pleased. But there are a whole lot of other emotions that come into play, and they're not all good.
When we're infatuated with someone, we're desperate to do nice things for them. You're much better off letting him/her spoil you.
3. Give them the eye
Couples who are deeply in love look at each other 75% of the time when talking and are slower to look away when someone else dares to intrude..
Here's how it works: If you look at someone you like 75% of the time when they're talking to you, you trick their brain. The brain knows the last time that someone looked at them that long and often, it meant they were in love. So it thinks okay, I'm obviously in love with this person as well, and starts to release phenylethylamine (PEA). PEA is a chemical cousin to amphetamines and is secreted by the nervous system when we first fall in love.
PEA is what makes our palms sweat, our tummies flip over, and our hearts race. The more PEA the person you want has pumping through the bloodstream, the more likely he/she is to fall in love with you.
4. Don't look away
Couples took longer to look away when someone else joined the conversation. Again, if you do this to someone who's not in love with you (yet), you trick his brain into thinking he is, and even more PEA floods into his bloodstream. They call this technique making 'toffee eyes'. Simply lock eyes with the person you like and keep them there, even when he has finished talking or someone else joins the conversation.
When you eventually do drag your eyes away (three or four seconds later), do it slowly and reluctantly, as though they're attached by warm toffee.
5. Practice pupillometrics
You can't consciously control your pupils (one reason why people say the eyes don't lie). But you can create the right conditions to inspire large pupils and get the effect.
First, reduce light. Our pupils expand when they're robbed of it, one reason why candlelight and dimmer switches are reduced in romantic restaurants. It's not just the softening of light that makes our faces appear more attractive, larger pupils also help.
This means if you're attracted to someone a lot, your pupils are probably already big, black holes. All good. To ensure this is happening or to up the effect of your bedroom eyes, focus on the part of the person you like the most.
Well there you go! Try it and let me know how it goes ;-)
For the complete article, visit www.ivillage.co.uk
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lol jst wanted to say something didnt read it yet
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